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Erotomania aka Sexual String
By Anne Griza
Erotomania, aka Clerambault syndrome (the doctor who, by the first time, in the early twentieth century, described cases of Erotomania), is a sexual disease from the psychosis group. It refers to the delusional certainty of being loved by someone from higher social class and intellectual background. Usually the loved person has already another affair and would hint the sexual string of any loving intention through unclear messages, which would seem cleared only for the sexually sick person, such as look, gesture, word would have nothing to do with falling in love. Given the relatively new pathology, this sexual disorder is still linked to sexual strings or psychiatric disorders. Since mediocre commodities in exchange of sexual favours guarantees a good turn, diagnosed would be separately from other sexual disorders.
Its incidence (social class, sex, age) is unknown and likely to occur in any cultural tapestry. The majority of cases seemed among women, maybe due to their upbringing, repressed sexuality and fees to be paid. In legal terms, however, more cases of men with such sexual disorder by delusional attitudes, like threats to physical integrity and psychological of the other.
It may strike either suddenly or gradually. Its delusions could be linked to frustrations in search of sexual strings or personal failure in confronting life’s demands. Certain school of thought would explain it as cognitive deficit, in other words, would pattern of behave be staunched, unable to tell a silly gesture from a loving pass. The person is usually lonesome, loves computers and get along with other people easily. Finds an old man with money as savage for all her loneliness, and places him the aim of her live. Even if he only pays the bills and she gets to call herself gifted by saying that helps him making a lot of money. She usually wouldn’t fit in a normal pattern of beauty and grace of a woman. Her delusions can get as far as calling herself the boss of some business venture and actually have people subjected to her whims, get to go to journeys and get her fees paid. Off course there would be sexual favours, for all that, he is the one who paid and put her where she is now and that’s the extent of it.
This delusion last for as long as the man finds out. From then on, she tends to retaliate and would ask to have her own place but would keep her position in the company run by him (she thinks she is better than the others and he pays for that).
Often, retaliation is anything but an attempt to get more done and less in exchange. Once she is there where would she go but back to anonymity?
There might be recurrence in which she would ask him to buy her a place to stay. She would dress up like a real mistress and give plenty of sexual favours.
Her intellectual capacity is quite low so that she would tell everyone how beautiful being tall and maybe ungainly is to the dismay of local women.
Sexual fantasies would go a long way now that computers hide them behind and therefore create characters never to be matched in real life. No matter how far fetched and whose expenses it might be.
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